tbh i couldnt care less about the command lingo; "#bot" was never an issue for me or players; since i also enabled #peqzone (very low pop server) everyone was used to use "#" prefixes beside.
most of the feedback about bots I received and my own impressions pretty much all point towards bot AI and too few commands to work around it
(i.e. shaman sometimes slow spamming unslowable mobs, cleric healing not efficient enough/or focused enough on MT)
missing commands imho:
-#bot group stance raid/normal (giving me playing the tank a few seconds headstart to build aggro) or in case MT is a bot (giving the designated tank a few seconds headstart to build aggro)
-#bot group autopull [delay after each pull] [range] (in combination with an exp fix to only get exp when the player is on the hatelist)
-#bot group priorityhealtarget [targetname] [%hp]
just my 2cp
-#bot group autocure [on/off]