login server? help

[spider661]

is there a way to bypass the login server or anything.. what i want is to (for example) give people my ip and have them connect directly. i dont want ot show up on the server list..
im new to all this and its not that i dont want all you grat people to be able to connect to my server i do really.. its just that it seems alot of peeps are gettind cese and desist orders and such for running servers and what not and probley getting live accounts baned and i dont want all that.. i have a live account and want to keep it so basicly it all boils down to i dont want to get caught i like plaing eq its just soemthing like this would help with plaining old world raids or all kinds of other stuf (somethig to do in downtime) and all.

anyways back to the point..
is there a way to let someone connect and not show up in a server list.
or mabie a way to run my own login server like newlogin1.eqemulator.net or something.
cause god forbid this site gets shut down or something then there is no server to connect to in the first place anymore.

thaks in advance and sorry for my spelling its late im tired and could never spell to great in the first place. :P